Tag: well-being

  • Finding Meaning in Response to Suffering

    Finding Meaning in Response to Suffering

    If there was a way to make it go away, you wouldn’t be reading this. If I could give my life to remove the suffering that she’s experienced, you would not have time to tell me goodbye. But there’s not and I can’t. Sometimes, the most unjust and unfair suffering is entirely unavoidable. And in…

  • The Power of Optimism

    The Power of Optimism

    Optimism is one of the most powerful and underappreciated tools that you have for improving your health and wellness. Practicing optimism can make you more resilient in difficult times, improve your mental health, and help you prevent or recover from a variety of physical ailments. But there is a difference between true optimism and “just burying your…

  • Strengthen Your Relationships by Using Active-Constructive Responding

    Strengthen Your Relationships by Using Active-Constructive Responding

    Note: this post was originally written as a companion to Bunny’s Good News: A Parable About Connection, which is where the forest critters come from. I encourage you to check it out. But if you don’t, just ignore the critter references and this will still make sense on its own. The Research I first learned…

  • What is Resilience? and What Isn’t.

    What is Resilience? and What Isn’t.

    “Resilience” is everywhere lately. We constantly see the word in the news, pop-psychology articles, and self-help literature. But rarely is the mention accompanied by a description of resilience that gives us a clear understanding what it means, what it looks like in real life, and how we can get some. So, this article is my…